It’s always good to have a plan just in case things don’t work out or it’s simply time for the date to end. The main thing is to simply be comfortable with who you’re with, where you are, and what you’re doing. And it’s OK to change your mind...at any time.
Communicate Clearly. Others cannot know your thoughts unless you tell them. Clearly. Do not give the impression that you are secure and happy with others when you are not. If you don’t like something, say as much in a strong and assertive voice. “I don’t like what you’re doing! Stop!”
Communicate Often. If you are ignored or not taken seriously, repeat your expectations in a firmer more forceful manner.
Alcohol & Drugs. The danger is a loss of control over body and mind. If you are going to use them, think: “Am I in control? Can I take care of myself?”
Do not become isolated. Stay with your friends and do not allow yourself to be alone with one or more other people (Vogt, 104).
Know Your Location. Know where you are at all times.
Trust Your Instincts. When your intuition says that something is odd, wrong, or even dangerous, trust it. Some warning signs given by others include aggressive behavior, jealousy, attempts, to control or isolate you from others, put downs, sexist remarks, unpleasant sex, and heavy use of alcohol and drugs.
Go to: What is “Intuition”?
Pocket Money. Make certain that you have enough pocket money to get home. You never know what might happen (such as a date gone bad). Plus, it’s good to be independent with the option to leave at any time. Keep a number to a taxi company. Always know where you are at any given time.
Cellphone. Always take a cellphone with you and make certain the battery is fully charged. Also, install and use the Circle of 6 app on the cellphone (see below for more information)
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